Import an Asian maid

 

                “A fat one is lazy and eats all the food you have in your refrigerator. Back in my time they didn’t even have pictures to show us, you’re privileged, so don’t pick a good looking one out of all these because she will seduce our men.” The woman smiles as she goes on. “I have mine for a year now but she is very annoying.” The woman is pointing her finger at an Asian looking girl in front of us. “She begs us every day for some credit to call home but she only has the right to call once every two weeks. She went too far yesterday when she asked the neighbor for credit. I am here at the company to discuss her punishment.”

                I am shocked as I look at the Asian girl in front of us. Her head is bend down and she doesn’t look older than 25. She is one of the many housemaids imported to Kurdistan from Asia. These young girls leave their families to come work here for months and some even for years. It is as if it’s the latest fashion to walk around the supermarket with an Asian housemaid following you.

                Nowadays there are several companies here in Kurdistan that imports maids from Nepal, Indonesia, Bangladesh, Malaysia and India. “They clean the house, watch your children and cook. The Indonesian one is cheaper so what else do you want?” says a busy looking man behind a desk as he gives us a couple of CV’s to look at. He talks as if he is selling food or something. I am really shocked but I read them one by one and come to the conclusion that almost all these girls are married and have children. Most of them are not older than 30 and already have work experience in Lebanon or Kuwait. So how long have they been with their children? How hard can life be I ask myself as I stare at the Asian woman still standing in front of us? Maybe she has children too? Maybe that’s why she wants to call home every day? Could you blame her? Should she really be punished? Wouldn’t you do the same if you were that desperate and alone?

                I almost want to walk out of the building as another Kurdish woman with a maid walks in. I’m curious about her story so I stop and turn around to eavesdrop. “My maid wants to speak to the owner of this company.” The Kurdish woman says with confidence. I look at the maid who looks very shy. I hold my breath because I can’t take more disappointments. But when she starts to talk in Kurdish I’m amazed. Her Kurdish is almost perfect when she asks the man behind the desk for extension of her contract. She likes the family she is placed in and does not want to leave Kurdistan.

                I feel a bit better when I leave the building though I’m not sure if I would really want to import a girl from Asia. We have never had an Asian maid but sometimes a Kurdish woman would stop by on a Friday afternoon to clean a few rooms only because she wanted to and because she likes the work. “Kurds don’t work.” Or “It’s better if the woman doesn’t know you and your family.” Is what I hear often when I ask why they have an Asian maid. One woman even said “They can’t steal from you because they can’t get out of the country without their papers therefore it’s better to import an Asian one than to get a Kurdish one.”

                The only thing I hope is that these Asian maids here in Kurdistan will not be abused like they are in other countries. I hope they’re not beaten, raped or threatened and I hope they will have gathered enough money when they go back so that they don’t have to be a maid in another country ever again. A child should grow up with the mother around and we should have more confidence in our own people.